With a great deal
of
sadness and heartache, we hope to present an
accurate and
heartfelt obituary of Elder Evans Bailey, who
was a
remarkable
father, husband and preacher of the Old Regular
Baptist
gospel. In
presenting an unfolding of his life, walks and
works in
serving the
Lord, we will draw from our numerous memories as
well
as the use of
Dad’s own writings and quotations.
He was one of
seven children born to the late
John Willie
and Phoebe (Fuller) Bailey. His brothers
and sisters
were:
Willoughby,
Basil, Edward, Nanny Ann
Smith, Margaret
Jane Raines,
Isa Mae Silcox, and Ida
Mae Looney.
All preceded him in death. Our Dad was born on
April 4, 1913,
near what is now the
Dickenson-Buchanan
County line on the left side of Greenbrier
Creek,
and passed
away on October 3, 1992 at Buchanan General
Hospital,
Grundy,
Virginia. Dad never received an accurate date of his
birth.
Some say he
was older than his birth date indicated. He was
orphaned
at an early
age. First, his mother died when he was four
years old,
and his
father died a few years later. After this, his
grandparents and
other family
members reared him. He told of his hardships,
which
included
scarcity of clothing and shoes. Hard work and many
chores
were a way of
life for our Dad as he grew up. Also, he told
us of
hiding in a
haystack outside a church house, along with his
brother,
Basil, so
they could hear the preaching and singing. They did
not
want to be
seen because they “didn’t have church clothes,”
and didn’t
want to go in
their “hand-me-downs.” The haystack became their
refuge so
they could hear the church services. These two
little boys
later became
preachers.
On June 21, 1932, Evans (our Dad), and Altia Deel were married.
They were
blessed with eleven children. All grew into
adulthood
and have
families of their own. One son, Willoughby, preceded
Dad in death.
Daddy leaves his wife, Altia; five sons,
Johnny, Hanford,
Everette,
Arnold, and Leo; five daughters, Mable, Pansy,
Pearley,
Donna, and
Connie; and sixteen grandchildren and eight
great-grand
children.
Daddy loved our mother and all his children, as we loved him.
He was proud
of our accomplishments, as we were his. We feel
one
of his
greatest pleasures and satisfactions in life was
witnessing
several
of his
children become Christians and be baptized.
Coal mining played a major role in his life. He was a retired coal
miner, who
had spent around 40 years in both working and
operating
coal mines.
Dad was also involved in various other endeavors
to earn
a living.
These included sawmills, timbering, general country
stores,
farming, and
livestock raising. He worked long, hard days and
did
indeed follow
the Biblical quote, which says, “Earn a living
by the
sweat of your
brows.”
In 1945, Daddy became a member of the Pilgrim’s Home Church
at Prater,
Virginia, and remained a faithful servant and
contributor
for
forty-seven years.
We want to share with you Daddy’s experience of being saved,
as he has
shared with us.
The following is an excerpt in his exact words which was published
in a Circular
Letter in the Minutes of the Mountain Liberty
Association
in 1981:
“I feel that thirty some years ago, the Lord saved my soul. Not
against my
will, but when I desired to be saved with all my
heart. I
knew I was
lost unless God saved me, because I could not do
it myself.
The sweetest
day I have ever seen was when I felt the Lord
forgive me of
all of my sins. I remember at the time I was
loading
coal in the
mine with Brother Marvin Hill. I remember
wondering if
he was paying
any attention to me. I do not know if he
remembers it
or not but he
said, “You are looking better.” I replied, “I
feel better.
Praise the
Lord.”
Daddy was one of the original charter members of the Pilgrim’s
Home Church.
He was instrumental in the construction of the
first
wooden frame
building of the Pilgrim’s Home Church. He helped
build the
present day cinder block building at this site when
the first
building
needed to be torn down and replaced.
We would like to also note, he helped with supporting, organizing,
and building
of other Old Regular Baptist churches in various
other
surrounding areas.
Daddy served as the moderator of the Pilgrim’s Home Church, at
Prater,
Virginia and later, when his health began to fail, he
was named
the honorary
moderator of the church. Also, he served as a
modera70
tor, and
later honorary assistant moderator, of the
[original] Mountain
Liberty
Association.
Daddy was ordained to preach in 1947, and in keeping with the
practices of
the Old Regular Baptist, he would travel to
other churches
in his own
community, as well as surrounding states, where he
helped
deliver the
messages of the Lord and comfort many in times of
sorrow.
Daddy, and
his brother, Elder Basil Bailey, traveled together
on
many trips to
preach the gospel in churches. They were
brothers in
the flesh and
spirit who maintained a close bond in life, and
now are
together in
the Heavenly paradise.
Our Dad stood for the right things in life, and especially for following
the teachings
of the Bible. As a result of his steadfast
stand,
he suffered
criticism and persecution from some who were not
blessed
with full
enlightenment. However, our Dad was endowed with
humility
and
forgiveness that was deeply engrained in his nature.
For years Dad
was in declining health and had to be
hospitalized
several
times, but he continued attending church. In fact, he
preached
the
introductory sermon for the Mountain Liberty Association
meeting
on September
6, 1992, at the Little Freedom Church. This was
his last
sermon, and he delivered it while seated in a chair.
During the
last month of his life, Daddy spent 22 days in the
hospital, and
there he spoke with one of his daughters,
Connie,
concerning
his life. He
spoke of many things of the past, but he
particularly
wanted her to
tell everyone, when his obituary was written,
that
he had many
struggles in serving the Lord. Prayer was a part
of his
life, as he
had prayed all his life for guidance, help and
forgiveness.
We feel
Daddy’s prayers were answered, and what he strived for
in life was
to be an example for others in the redemption of
souls,
which
otherwise might have been lost.
There is great sadness in the loss of our Dad. However, if we may
borrow a
quote from a cousin who sums up our feelings quite
adequately,
we would say:
“Remember he will live on with you forever.
You will be
quoting his sayings, thinking of his teachings,
and
missing him.”
So we are thankful for our memories of a father
who
was firm in
his faith to God.
We will remember the words of wisdom that he gave us to live
by in order
to reach the kingdom of Heaven.
We will
remember how he ended some of his sermons by saying,
“Children,
let’s learn to be good to each other and love one
another is
my prayer.”
Daddy spoke of riding a golden train to Heaven and going home.
We believe
that he has achieved his greatest goal in life —A
HOME
WITH GOD IN
HEAVEN.
Written by his family.
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